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Aww this made me happy. The fact that a little part of my advice made a little impact really goes along way and puts a smile on my face. So I thank you! <3
thank youuu, youre so kind! maybe you can help me get a million questions by promoting me! (: heheh jk but thank you again <3
Aww sweetie! Things will be okay! You just have to let time do its magic. If there are signs that he likes you back, just keep trying. But if its obvious that he doesnt, as much as it pains to say, you need to move on. Dont waste your time and effort on someone who wont meet you half way. I know its cliche to say that there are other fishes in the sea, but really there is. But honestly sometimes, guys are really oblivious and the thing that needs to be said in their face is hey! I like you, and I always did. Simple as that. No games just truths. Hope that helps! <3
The fear of the unknown. Frankly I’ve been through this so I know exactly how you feel. You feel as if you want to make the first move and bring it up, but you fear that the feelings are not mutual. I cannot stress enough how much you need to just keep it plain and simple. Just go with the flow, no matter how frustrating it is. Keep it cool and occasionally flirt still. If this goes on for like 3 months, which is normal, and yet he still hasnt done anything, ask him on a date. It may surprise you but sometimes guys just like dating too and the whole commitment deal scares them. So just keep it simple,try not to overthink, and try to question it. If things are meant to be, time will eventually make it happen. Hope that helps! <3
Trust is a huge factor in any relationship. Not just romantically, with family, friends or coworkers even. Very hard to earn but very easy to break. If you already done the deed once, the problem that you had was that you did it multiple times. The fact that he even gave you that chance was something that you shouldn’t have taken for granted. I’m sorry dear, I cant speak for your bf but if someone did something dishonest to me, I wouldn’t even consider giving them a second chance right away unless he proves that he deserves it back. So my only advice is to just be patient with him. Prove to him that you deserve to be loved by him. Actions speak louder than words. If he does love you he will eventually come back around. Til then, just keep trying. Hope that helps! <3
I’ve been through this before and I totally know what you mean by the awkward tension between you two. Sure it’s hard to be friends at first because you two had a history together, but if she is a good person, just open up to her. At the next party just start a casual convo with her. Say how was your day or what have u been up to? Things like that. When a girl sees a guy at least try to make an effort, that’s when she knows to be cordial with you. It sucks to say this but it’s very rare for a girl to be the first to make a move. We are so stubborn. So next time just approach her first, and who knows you may be surprised with the outcome. Hope that helps!
You should take a chance. Take a risk and ask her on a date. You never know until you try and if she says yes, there can be a spark and something can possibly happen. And if she declines, just know where you stand and that there are other fishes out there still in the sea. Drugs or not, feelings are feelings. And if you like her, go for it. It doesnt hurt to try. Hope that helps! <3
I know its going to be hard to do, but if you really like him and truly care for him, try and be friends. If you constantly still have feelings for him and cant help but flirt with him when you do see him, just cut back on the things you say or do. As respects to his new gf, you wouldn’t want to make things complicated then they already are. But my advice is to stay friends with him. And if you see yourself still flirting or still wanting more than that, just tell him that you can’t be friends with him until you are completely over it and him. If he is a good guy, he should understand and agree. Hope that helps! <3
